H.W #57 57

Kids should be parented in a way not to hurt them AT ALL because those are kids there not animals to hit and hurt them. Tloving each other and doing the right thing is the main thing to raise kids at, if everyone raise there kids on love and doing the right thing, not stealing and not hurting other people the world would be in a better place, but if you wanna raise ur kids on somthing by just telling them to do it and you be doing the oppoiste then ur kids won't ever do what you told them 2, like an example, you told your kids to not lie at all, and a friend calls you and asks you where you at and you be home and lie to your friend and be like ohh I'm at the marekt with the family,(infront ofyour kids) the kids would think its alright to lie after they saw there father doing it and they would start to lie.

Parents are the perfect people always for kids, twhat ever the parents do is the right way in the little kids eye, so if the parents be good then the little kids would grow up good like them.

When you have a baby you take care of his health as much as you can, and breast feeding is the best for the babies, the mother have to breatfeed her baby for 2 years(it says that in the quran also) but some mothers just don't like to breastfeed there babies and they give them bottles after like a month or two which is unhealthy.
Kids should be treated as of there kids not adults or puppies, treat them the right way and be fair with all of your kids, not like one more then the other.

My response to (what attachment parenting and ferber message) is:
All of what its saying is amazing, there is 2 lines that got stuck in my head the first one is "brest milk contain unique brain building natrulents that cannot be manufactured or bought" every mom should know that so they can brestfeed there babies and not just give them some marekt milk. Another thing that I liked is babies cry as if its a signal so we see what they want because they cannot talk, not because there is somthing hurting them.
I liked the steps ferber way has on how to teach the babe to sleep in the night, I think every mother should learn how to do it and do it, because the father needs to see the mother at night, she cannot just stay with the babe, or then the father wouldn't like bringing anymore babies. Those links are so good and have a lot of good information I enjoyed reading them.